Dec 19

Transgender Conferences



First Event 2017        January 25-29, 2017       Best Western Royal Plaza Hotel       Marlboro, MA

First Event has grown into one of the largest trans gatherings in the world and the only major winter conference. Join us in historic Boston for educational lectures, workshops and courses, nightly entertainment and dancing, banquets, special lunches, trans-oriented vendors, and more! Come in out of the cold for fun and friendship.




Keystone Conference       March 6-11, 2018     Harrisburg, PA    Sheraton Harrisburg-Hershey Hotel.


Welcome to the Ninth Annual Keystone Conference, “A Celebration of Gender Diversity,” hosted by TransCentralPA in Pennsylvania’s capital city of Harrisburg! You are in store for an informative, inspirational and joyous time among members and supporters of the Transgender community.


Diva Las Vegas     April 15-20, 2018    Las Vegas, NV     Contact:

Diva Las Vegas is a vacation, not a convention, and is quite different from the vast majority of the TG community events you’re likely to know. There are no speakers, no seminars, no talent contests, and no big communal closet feeling. However, we have a complete schedule of activities of all types. The discussion forum for DLV is here.




Espirit 2017     May 13-20, 2018    Red Lion Hotel, Port Angeles, WA     Contact:

Sponsored by The Emerald City Social Club of Seattle and the The Cornbury Society of Vancouver, BC   Esprit focuses on changing lives for the better and creating pride and self-respect for anyone who is transgender. Educational, inspirational, and experimental, Esprit is steeped in prospects for personal growth and friendship.




Sparkle XIV     July 6-8, 2018     Manchester England

Sparkle is a celebration of gender diversity, an opportunity to make new friends and obtain help, support and information on gender issues. But above all it is our chance to be proud of who we are and show the world what being TG is all about. The most important person at Sparkle is you, this is your weekend so make the most of it and enjoy being yourself among friends! Watch Sparkle here and here.


Gender Odyssey       August 9-12, 2018    WA State Convention Ctr,  Seattle, WA


An international conference focused on the needs and interests of transgender and gender non-conforming people. Packed with thought-provoking workshops, discussion groups, social events and entertainment, this one-of-a-kind annual gathering attracts people from all over the world for an uplifting weekend of skill sharing and community.


Southern Comfort     September 6-8     Riverside Hotel, Fort Lauderdale. FL

Philadelphia Trans-Health Conference     Sep 7-9, 2017   Philadelphia PA       Sponsored by the Mazzoni Center

Now in its 13th year, PTHC proudly offers a space for Trans* people and our allies, families, and providers to come together to re-envision what health means for Trans* people. The focus of this unique conference is promoting transgender health and wellness in mind, body, spirit, and community. PTHC recognizes the interconnections among all aspects of our well-being; including health, safety, education, employment, housing, and social support.


2017 River City Sparkle    October, 2017       No details available


Fantasia Fair      October 15-22, 2017     Provincetown MA     Contact:

Held every October, Fantasia Fair is more than a conference and more than a vacation… It is a week-long celebration of the transgender community.

Activities and special events take place throughout the week including daily workshops, a fashion show, cabaret show, and two formal banquets. There are so many activities and they are so varied, you will find your biggest problem is choosing what to do. The speakers are some of the finest and most knowledgeable in and out of the trans community. You will be fascinated by the topics, which range all the way from gender theory to wig care.

Couples find support, friendship, and caring, and enjoy the opportunity to share and partake of workshops and sessions that explore and recognize the ups and downs of a TG partnership. The Fair organizers have long understood how much the presence of partners adds to the Fair. To encourage couples to come, there is a generous discount for your partner’s registration.

In addition, attendees have all of the fun that is Provincetown, Massachusetts. Being a well-known LGBT vacation destination, this quaint little village is warm and accepting of trans people. Enjoy the clubs, go on a whale watch, visit a local winery, and taste some of the best seafood found on the east coast.

Fantasia Fair is a surprisingly great value when you consider what you get for an entire week’s worth of activities. Discounts are available with early registration. For those with financial difficulties, scholarships are offered.


Lake Erie Gala 2017     Nov 15-19, 2017     Clarion Bel-Aire Hotel on W 8th in Erie

Sponsored by the Erie Sisters.        Contact Melanie Shubitowski at 440-265-8191


Beauty and the Beach     Dates pending      Rehobooth Beach, DE


Dec 04

All About Belts

Belts can be that clincher to a perfect look. Far from being purely utilitarian, belts can be the final sartorial touch that completes and polishes your total look. The addition of a belt can be the equivalent of adding a period to the end of a sentence. In addition, they can add shape and aid in improving the garment’s fit. Of course, like any other accessory there are factors and elements that come into play to successfully pull off and integrate a belt into your look.

Here’s our guide, courtesy of Pretastyler,  to wearing belts and looking amazing in them.

Types of Belts

Being knowledgeable about the types of belts available will better equip when it comes to figuring out which one to choose for particular occasions and whether a certain belt style will suit your personal style and body type. Knowing the belt lingo will also make it easier for you to shop and find exactly what you’re looking for.


Whether it comes in black or in brown, the classic belt is a must-have in every woman’s wardrobe. This belt is a versatile piece that exceeds its practicality. With a simple design and buckle, the simplicity of this belt makes it adaptable to a gamut of occasions. This belt when in a good quality leather will add polish to your office separates and your denim.

But don’t stop there; why not try some bright colored belts? They are the perfect choice to pep up your LBD or a predominantly monochromatic look. Go to neon belts and you’ll add some youthful vigor and dose of trendy style to classic looks. If you’re up for getting noticed, match one accessory e.g, bag or scarf to the color of your belt.

The next step up is the metallic belt. In finishes such as gold and silver they are as versatile and easy to style as your traditional neutrals such as: nude, navy, black, and white. If you want to add glam to your look, reach for a metallic belt and watch your glam instantly shine through. Whether you opt for a skinny or wide metallic belt, the versatility of this piece remains constant. A trendy and of-the-moment take on this belt is to buy a belt with a metallic piece on the front; this type of metallic belt gives more structure to your overall look.

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Typically a boho accessory, the woven/braided leather belt has crossed over to more traditional styles. Leather is the usual material of choice for this type of belt given its earthy style connotations. However the ease with which this belt can be styled has made it an easy pick for fashionistas to cross over to style even their preppy looks. In my opinion this belt looks best when worn over flowing tunic tops and maxi dresses as well as more polished pieces like pencil skirts and sheath dresses.

Trend up your belt with no traditional belting.

woven and braided belts

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This belt is especially appropriate for evening occasions and can be relied upon to make a major impression. From a belt that sparkles for the glam queens, to a studded belt if you’re more of a rock chick and an animal print if you’re a dramatic gal, the choices are endless.
The key here is to find a style that resonates with your style so you can wear it with confidence.

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Skinny belts are subtle accessories that can easily spruce up your outfit and make it look complete. It’s also easier to play around with colorful hues and bolder prints since it’s width makes it understated.
When styling this belt take note of proportion, since the belt is so skinny wear it with jeans or skirts that are more fitted. Loose and flowing pieces will drown out the belt and it will lose its chic appeal.

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Wide belts are another kind of statement belt; from an Obi to add a little oriental flavor to sexy corset style or a classic wide sash style, each makes unique statement. A wide belt is perfect for creating an amazing hourglass shape and will work wonders for most waistlines.

If you want to cinch in your waist when wearing shapeless shift dresses or empire waist pieces, a wide belt is your best bet. Invest in a neutral wide belt that you can style different options with, and invest in a fun, trendier version for nights when you’re feeling a little bit funkier.

Recently there has been an upward spike in the presence of Japanese-inspired fashion trends on the runways. Multiple seasons have passed and the popularity and prominence of obi belts has grown by leaps and bounds. What makes the Obi distinctive is that there is a wide base that serves as the base to wrap around the thinner straps that tie in the front. Obi belts are a hot trend right now and it is a worthy addition to your wardrobe, for sure.

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Tying a rope around your waist says effortless style to a T. They are an easy way to add structured and shape to your more casual looks. You can tie your rope belt in multiple ways, either in the middle front, the back, or even asymmetrical to one side. It’s just a one-of-a-kind way to finish up a look. This rope belt works especially well for the warmer months with lighter fabrications. You can even personalize this type of belt even further with the way you decide to knot it.

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Elasticized belts can have a tendency to look 80s-inspired, especially if they sport an ornate buckle. Fight against that by making sure that your elastic belts serve as a seamless component of your look instead of a focal point. If you do decide to let your beautiful waist and elasticized belt take center stage, keep the rest of your look simple and let the attention be on the belt.

elastic belts

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Fabric belt or sash belts are another hot trend that emerged from street style this year. Scarves used as belts, either tied at the waist or slung low on the hips, is the ultimate in cool girl styling. This styling insider trick will give you a definite fashion editor feel.

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The Right Belt for You

Honestly, there really is no definitive right or wrong way to wear a belt. The “right” location to wear your belt comes from assessing your torso.

Ask yourself the following questions:
• Are you short or long waisted?
• Do you have a defined waist or are you lacking a waist?
• How large or small is your bust ?
• Are you large hipped?

If you are short/high-waisted.

Your aim is to visually elongate your torso so narrow belts and/or those that sit below your waist is often the best way to go. You can also:
• Match the color of your belt to your pants or skirt (A)
• Continue the visual length of your torso by wearing a belt in the color of your top (B)
• Wear a belt on your hips (C)
• Wear a single color above and below your waist and then add a narrow belt at the waist (D)
• Wear a single color above and below the waist and a narrow belt in the same color.(E)
• Wear a concave shaped belt

belts for short or high waisted womenSource: Image A, Image B, Image C, Image D, Image E

If you are long/low-waisted.

You have plenty of torso to experiment with all manner of belts with medium to wide styles being your best. Avoid wearing belts too low as this will emphasize your long torso.

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If you have no waist definition

The goal here will be to create the illusion of a waist. This can be achieved by:
• Wearing a medium to narrow width belt in a darker color than the garment you are wearing
• Calling attention to your waist with a belt peeping out from an open jacket or sweater
• Position your belt a little above your natural waist
• Elastic belts will likely become a favorite once tried.

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If you have a large bust

Your bust sits lower and creates the appearance of being short waisted with little to no waist definition. Counter this with:
• Medium to narrow width belts in a darker color than the garment you are wearing and positioned firmly just below the breasts, this allows the belt to become the focal point giving you more hourglass shape.
• Wear a belt in the same color as your outfit and wear as low as possible.

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If you are full hipped

You are blessed with a waist so belts are a great accessory for showing off your figure and improving the fit of many garments. However, they can over emphasize the size of your hips and buttocks. Your best belts include:
• Narrow belts that sit above your natural waist
• Wide belts on the waist.
• Styles in the same color as your pants and skirts to de-emphasize your hips and buttocks. Avoid wearing belts on your hips.

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Do’s and Don’ts of Wearing a Belt

Do you think you’re ready to conquer belts now? Before you go armed with your newfound knowledge, here are some do’s and don’ts to bear in mind:
• Do wear the same color of belt as your dress. It’ll make your look more streamlined.
• Do store your belts and clean them properly. A little bit of care goes a long way in making your accessories last.
• Do create shape and curves using belts. Belt phobia is worth conquering if only for this one reason.
• Do get colorful and bold when shopping for belts. It’s a great way to bring some life into your more basic pieces.
• Do show off your belt. Put the attention on your awesome accessory and your amazing figure.
• Do declutter your closet and swap ‘out of style’ belts each year.
• Don’t fold your belts or curl them tightly when storing them.
• Don’t match every single accessory to the color of your belt.
• Don’t wear your belt too tight.
• Don’t be afraid to wear your belt over your cardigan or cover up. It’s a chic and refreshing way to add shape while wearing outerwear.
• Don’t overshadow a statement belt with other large and/or prominent accessories.
• Don’t wear lighter belt fabrications (fabric, rope) for the colder seasons. Leather can be worn all year round.
• Don’t be afraid to show off your fun personality with an equally fun and fabulous belt.
• Don’t ever be scared of belts. No more belt phobia for you!

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Now with all that said, you still may be a bit overwhelmed with this whole belting thing so I turned to Sally McGraw, a fashion blogger from Minneapolis, who has some solid advice for getting started.

As with anything new, the best way to delve into belting is simply to experiment. For starters, you’ll need to figure out which styles work for your body type and where on your body to belt. You’ll need to do some in-person trial runs to find out for sure what works on your figure.

belting with a scarf Sally McGraw

So start with scarves: Put on a fairly loose dress or tunic, and try belting it with a scarf at various spots on your bod. Hips, wearing waist, natural waist, and up under your bust. See what looks best. Then try making the scarf wide like an obi belt and see how that looks. Fold it so it’s the width of a pants belt. Roll it tight as you can so it’s skinny. See which width is most flattering. You may find that multiple combinations look good – skinny at your natural waist, wide up by your bust, medium at your wearing waist. Most women who like and can wear belts do so multiple ways, so don’t decide you’ve found your single belt-wearing style and stick to it! Keep exploring!

add multiple belts sally mcgraw

Now that you know what works for you, you’re going to need to actually procure some belts. So my next bit of advice? THRIFT. Belts are available at thrift stores in great abundance, and for dirt cheap. Why pay $30 a pop, when you can get 20 belts to experiment with for that price at the Salvation Army?

This is especially important since a belt that fits your natural waist is going to be WAY SMALLER than one that hugs your hips. So in addition to buying up multiple widths, you might need to stock up on multiple lengths. Yet another reason to buy used! I have never paid more than $3 for a thrifted belt, and often snap them up for $0.25.

belting dresses

About three years ago, I owned two belts and they were both for trouser wearing. They languished unworn in my closet because, well, I do not have a trouser-friendly body. But once belting dresses at the natural waist became a popular style, I dove in headfirst and started collecting belts like a madwoman. I now have a fabulous and enviable collection of belts, and love nothing more than to throw one into the outfit mix. But I did tons and tons of experimenting before I became truly comfortable with belting, and I encourage you to do the same. All you need to get started is a scarf and a mirror!

belts flatter your figure sally mcgraw